Anticipatory grief coaching and support circle for pre loss emotional processing
Grief coaching for people navigating identity loss and life after bereavement
Online grief support space for processing emotions safely and gently
Grief coaching for complex layered grief experiences and emotional healing

Working through grief doesn't have to feel scary

I’m a trauma-informed grief coach here to hold you steady through your grief.

Join our monthly online grief circles, a space to feel less alone in your grief .

Join our monthly online grief circles, a space to feel less alone in your grief .

Grief is personal, layered, and forever changing.

So the way we work together is always shaped around you, your nervous system, your experience and what feels most supportive for you right now.

Support for learning how to live alongside grief without pressure to move on
Holistic grief coaching services for emotional healing and nervous system support

You might be in one of these spaces

People come to this work at all different points in their grief.
You might recognise yourself in one of these experiences:

  • Feeling overwhelmed by emotions that come in waves and feel hard to manage

  • Feeling stuck, numb, or disconnected from yourself and your life

  • Trying to cope on the outside while feeling completely different on the inside

  • Wherever you are, you’re welcome here.

Grief support for those feeling disconnected from themselves after loss
Online grief coaching for building safety and emotional resilience after loss
Grief coaching for processing difficult emotions that feel too heavy to carry alone

1:1 Grief coaching

I offer 1:1 grief coaching for people navigating loss who want support that goes beyond talking, bringing in both emotional support and gentle nervous system awareness with my holistic approach. Everything is shaped around where you are, not where the world thinks you should be.

This may be for you if you are:

  • Wondering who you are now that your person is gone

  • Trying to hold it together on the outside while feeling broken on the inside

  • Feeling stuck, numb, anxious, or emotionally exhausted after loss

  • Wanting support that understands both your grief and your nervous system in a trauma-informed way

Support for navigating grief in a way that feels gentle safe and human
Online grief coaching sessions for processing loss, trauma and emotional healing

1:1 Anticipatory Grief Coaching

Anticipatory grief activates both emotional and survival systems in the body. Your nervous system is trying to prepare for loss while still living in the present. It's a truly heartbreaking and confusing space to be in and I know this first-hand. You are grieving someone who is still alive and that comes with such complexity of emotions and layers, along with thoughts that you simply don't feel you can say out loud. I said to my grief coach so many times, I wish I had you to support me while I was living alongside anticipatory grief. It's why I'm creating this space, to give support to those living in the in-between

Who is it for:

  • You're the 'strong' one holding it all together yet crumbling while alone

  • You feel on edge and constantly overwhelmed, because all of your energy is focused on keeping your person going

  • You're feeling complicated emotions like anger, guilt, resentment alongside love and hope

One to one grief coaching support for coping with bereavement and life after loss

Anticipatory Grief Circle

The Anticipatory Grief Circle is a gentle space for those who are already grieving while their person is still here. This kind of grief can feel confusing, lonely, and often unspoken, as you move between love, loss, and uncertainty about what’s to come. This circle is here to hold that in-between space with care. You don’t have to make sense of it all or carry it alone.

Who is it for:

  • You feel isolated and overwhelmed navigating this alone

  • You want to connect with others who understand and will hold space without judgement

  • Feeling emotionally exhausted and need a space to share, confidentially

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Trauma informed grief coaching helping you reconnect with yourself after loss

Finding the right support for you

You don’t have to know exactly what you need before reaching out. There are different ways we can work together depending on where you are in your grief.


This might be 1:1 support if you’re looking for something more personal and consistent, or group spaces if you’re seeking connection alongside your grief. Everything is shaped around where you are right now, and we can always have a conversation to explore what might feel most supportive for you.

  • Kind words from my clients...

    I have been working with Harley for over 6 months and she is a truly wonderful coach. She is compassionate and caring and holds a wonderful space for me to sit with my grief. Since working with her I have been more able to process the emotions that I used to avoid and it is so comforting to have her in my corner in the tough moments. 


    Harley has a gentle yet powerful way of guiding me back to myself, helping me to find moments of calm and clarity even in the hardest of days. I always leave our sessions feeling lighter, more grounded and totally supported. Her calming presence is a real gift.
    (1:1 Grief Coaching)

  • Kind words from my clients...

    Harley is a wonderful, gentle coach who holds space beautifully. I felt safe and cared for in her presence. She really was a great support walking alongside me when I was struggling with my grief.

    (1:1 Grief Coaching)

Anticipatory grief coaching support for coping before losing a loved one

You might be wondering...

It’s completely normal to feel unsure about what support might look like. The questions below might help you get a feel for how this works.

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